it now makes sense to me why we stay patient.

sometimes the opportunity is not created by us only. it usually takes all the factors to fall into place before we can even catch it. yes, we can create the conditions for opportunity to happen. but although we do this, we must remember that there are some factors that can only be settled by waiting.

the key here is patience. check out which religion doesn't teach u about patience, kindness, forbearance?

爱是恒久忍耐，爱里凡事能盼望，不求自己的益处。all these factors. it's a recurring theme.

it's not about our will. but it's about being able to submit to the higher plan. and waiting for god to work in our lives. so God, that is a true lesson learnt. keep it in my heart.