dan kao nei mei dan wong wong yat gao qing noh yun ma yin dai zo lei lao hen sang yat sang gan nei zao.
well. na bo pi li eh sio sa, xin tao ya buay jia bo nai. HAHA. how familiar, how familiar. i don't know why, but i know why too. i may not fully understand, but i do observe it. it's juz like, when those ppl find out from rutherford's experiment, those weird observations. they thought atom was nice chunk, but in the end from the alpha particle scattering, siala, why got fat deflection one? haha. so that time, they don't understand, but they hav to accept the fact that, wa alpha particle muz kena deflected this way.
so similarly in life, i reckon some situations they juz happen, even though we don't fully understand the "mechanisms" of action. maybe it's due to our amount of observations and experience, or lack thereof.
Monday, July 26, 2010
Sunday, July 25, 2010
most people want teamwork, but they're really lazy in communication.
i hav to sae, teamwork probably will not b possible without communication of any sort. by a wink of an eye, a written message, a hand gesture, we may effectively convey a message to the other party and achieve a certain expected outcome.
but i find many a time we seem to be unable to communicate properly. how about this, u send a message, then u get null return. assume a certain warfare situation, null return highly indicates the other party's death, absence, or probably this ally has turned traitor. HAHA
a null return leads to a breakdown in communication. in such a situation, it is highly probable that the teamwork is gone. teamwork gone, nobody will be achieving a socially efficient aim. then, no socially efficient outcome of any chain of action.
i hav to sae, teamwork probably will not b possible without communication of any sort. by a wink of an eye, a written message, a hand gesture, we may effectively convey a message to the other party and achieve a certain expected outcome.
but i find many a time we seem to be unable to communicate properly. how about this, u send a message, then u get null return. assume a certain warfare situation, null return highly indicates the other party's death, absence, or probably this ally has turned traitor. HAHA
a null return leads to a breakdown in communication. in such a situation, it is highly probable that the teamwork is gone. teamwork gone, nobody will be achieving a socially efficient aim. then, no socially efficient outcome of any chain of action.
Friday, July 23, 2010
Monday, July 19, 2010
报仇。
if u'd seek revenge for ur whole life, i dun tink one lifetime is enough. art of living is about forgiving oneself and others, instead of meditating on wrongdoings. wrongdoings are great opportunities to take some time to reflect, instead of just used as an excuse to give urself procrastination time by blaming others or urself. c'mon man, move on. stuck wif all unhappiness and transgression and unpaid debts, u'll juz sit down and do nothing.
i rather you hav many bad debts that probably unpaid here and there, than u go and 追债. scarly u take chopper to do that, then tio arrested
if u'd seek revenge for ur whole life, i dun tink one lifetime is enough. art of living is about forgiving oneself and others, instead of meditating on wrongdoings. wrongdoings are great opportunities to take some time to reflect, instead of just used as an excuse to give urself procrastination time by blaming others or urself. c'mon man, move on. stuck wif all unhappiness and transgression and unpaid debts, u'll juz sit down and do nothing.
i rather you hav many bad debts that probably unpaid here and there, than u go and 追债. scarly u take chopper to do that, then tio arrested
Thursday, July 15, 2010
irresponsible.
shld we just judge people as irresponsible, when they did make a big mistake BUT they did not know the consequence of it?
in my situation, i dun tink i will. in fact, i seem to be taking that responsibility for such people. but maybe it's juz a figment of my imagination. but if it's really not my responsibility, then i shld juz heck care. HAHA. seems like i'm insecure kid now. i shld go and find my locker. so as to safeguard my valuables.
but u'll never know. a locker can be hacked. HAHA. good senseless rambling. good for health.
shld we just judge people as irresponsible, when they did make a big mistake BUT they did not know the consequence of it?
in my situation, i dun tink i will. in fact, i seem to be taking that responsibility for such people. but maybe it's juz a figment of my imagination. but if it's really not my responsibility, then i shld juz heck care. HAHA. seems like i'm insecure kid now. i shld go and find my locker. so as to safeguard my valuables.
but u'll never know. a locker can be hacked. HAHA. good senseless rambling. good for health.
Monday, July 12, 2010
Thursday, July 08, 2010
Wednesday, July 07, 2010
how are people expected to conduct themselves?
for the smart, they are expected to conduct themselves in a certain manner. the less educated, another manner. the evil, another manner. and the list goes on of these traits.
but more often than not, we always see conflicting personalities and the conduct of the person. an evil person disguises himself as an altruistic fellow. the smart and caring usually portray themselves as lowly or regularly passing snide remarks. the responsible do not always take up leadership positions but give it to others, who may be much worse at the job.
there comes another problem - how should u then accurately judge a person? HAHA. this is where we fail many a time. we fall into the hands of tricksters, or people who make use of us just because they pass themselves off as caring people or anything along the line. an observant and analytical person's criticism is usually passed off as this person being extremely pessimistic, and people may view him as cynical and serious when he may actually be a light-hearted person.
a little no link. but in conclusion, we should not judge people too quickly. they say, what we see is only the tip of the iceberg. how about scientists who tell you there's the other 90% of it below the water surface? another point, beware of confidence tricksters or people who are of the same de Broglie wavelength.
for the smart, they are expected to conduct themselves in a certain manner. the less educated, another manner. the evil, another manner. and the list goes on of these traits.
but more often than not, we always see conflicting personalities and the conduct of the person. an evil person disguises himself as an altruistic fellow. the smart and caring usually portray themselves as lowly or regularly passing snide remarks. the responsible do not always take up leadership positions but give it to others, who may be much worse at the job.
there comes another problem - how should u then accurately judge a person? HAHA. this is where we fail many a time. we fall into the hands of tricksters, or people who make use of us just because they pass themselves off as caring people or anything along the line. an observant and analytical person's criticism is usually passed off as this person being extremely pessimistic, and people may view him as cynical and serious when he may actually be a light-hearted person.
a little no link. but in conclusion, we should not judge people too quickly. they say, what we see is only the tip of the iceberg. how about scientists who tell you there's the other 90% of it below the water surface? another point, beware of confidence tricksters or people who are of the same de Broglie wavelength.
Tuesday, July 06, 2010
Monday, July 05, 2010
Shame, this ugly Singapore Slam
by Yeo Sam Jo
styouth@sph.com.sg
5 Jul 2010
Straits Times
Let’s support each other, rather than strive to put everyone down – especially ourselves
It is official: We hate ourselves. I say this because of some recent events which should have been proud moments for our country, but instead degenerated into shameful displays of slander, pettiness and a nation divided.
Just think about this year’s Miss Singapore Universe pageant and the World Table Tennis Championships. Clearly, we do not want each other to succeed. I mean, why else would we start demeaning rumours about our own beauty queen, and scorn our paddlers for winning us a gold in Moscow?
It is strange, given how much we enjoy being first: First in line, first in class, first to eat.
But if history is anything to go by, we are also the first to bring each other down. I will call this the Singapore Slam – where we slam everyone and everything, especially those we call our own.
In this Internet age, online forums, blogs and websites readily breed this culture of self-loathing. They provide the fertile medium for virtual insults to be hurled with little thought. After all, dissing someone else is only a click away. A friend of mine once remarked that five minutes of reading YouTube comments is more than enough to lose all hope for humanity.
I still hear the echoes of our past glories tainted with snide comments: “Gawd, Fann Wong’s English was cannot-make-it in Shanghai Knights.”
“Please lah, Hady Mirza was just lucky to have won Asian Idol.”
“I Not Stupid is really, erm, stupid.”
And the self-deprecating list goes on.
Speaking of which, where are our Singapore Idols? I saw Taufik’s CD going for $2 at a music store. Sure we love a good bargain, but I’d like to think our “Idol” deserves more than that. Unless it is National Day, we do not hear many of our home-grown singers on our airwaves. Or wait – maybe we just do not want to.
It is no wonder so many of our talents have gone overseas to get famous. It is just so darn hard to impress the crowd here. If Stefanie Sun had based her career back home, I’m guessing she would have been drowned out by critics sooner than she could croon My Desired Happiness.
Instead of putting our icons and winners on a pedestal, we knock them down with the classic Singapore Slam. Of course, some of us have higher expectations, and there are always exceptions like the Merlion, which we have come to regard with affection.
But surely we do not need to be disparaging about everything. We pride ourselves on being a tight-knit country, yet aside from food, we are stingy with our praises, and appreciation for one another is disturbingly scarce.
I do not know if this is misguided humility or some subconscious jealousy, but there is a dangerous message we are sending to our young and eager ones: “Don’t get in the spotlight, nobody will support you.”
Or: “Stay low, you’re not good enough anyway.”
If we keep doing this, let us not talk about a brain drain – nobody is even going to try. Then Singapore will really be nothing to shout about, and it is ultimately we who stand to lose the most. So instead of jeering, how about cheering? Think of the World Cup and Eurovision, where people fervently rally behind their countrymen. I doubt any footballer or singer could make it without such support.
We also see it in our schools, where young athletes are driven to shine by their encouraging peers. It is amazing how a simple thumbs-up can make a difference.
So before you pass the next nasty comment, think about who you are really harming.
Philosopher Rene Descartes said: “It is easy to hate, and it is difficult to love.”
I say it is about time we choose what is right over what is easy.
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obtained from http://forum.channelnewsasia.com/viewtopic.php?t=356526&start=10&sid=ebdbde9f154aea7b7cccb537e9218548
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very interesting.
by Yeo Sam Jo
styouth@sph.com.sg
5 Jul 2010
Straits Times
Let’s support each other, rather than strive to put everyone down – especially ourselves
It is official: We hate ourselves. I say this because of some recent events which should have been proud moments for our country, but instead degenerated into shameful displays of slander, pettiness and a nation divided.
Just think about this year’s Miss Singapore Universe pageant and the World Table Tennis Championships. Clearly, we do not want each other to succeed. I mean, why else would we start demeaning rumours about our own beauty queen, and scorn our paddlers for winning us a gold in Moscow?
It is strange, given how much we enjoy being first: First in line, first in class, first to eat.
But if history is anything to go by, we are also the first to bring each other down. I will call this the Singapore Slam – where we slam everyone and everything, especially those we call our own.
In this Internet age, online forums, blogs and websites readily breed this culture of self-loathing. They provide the fertile medium for virtual insults to be hurled with little thought. After all, dissing someone else is only a click away. A friend of mine once remarked that five minutes of reading YouTube comments is more than enough to lose all hope for humanity.
I still hear the echoes of our past glories tainted with snide comments: “Gawd, Fann Wong’s English was cannot-make-it in Shanghai Knights.”
“Please lah, Hady Mirza was just lucky to have won Asian Idol.”
“I Not Stupid is really, erm, stupid.”
And the self-deprecating list goes on.
Speaking of which, where are our Singapore Idols? I saw Taufik’s CD going for $2 at a music store. Sure we love a good bargain, but I’d like to think our “Idol” deserves more than that. Unless it is National Day, we do not hear many of our home-grown singers on our airwaves. Or wait – maybe we just do not want to.
It is no wonder so many of our talents have gone overseas to get famous. It is just so darn hard to impress the crowd here. If Stefanie Sun had based her career back home, I’m guessing she would have been drowned out by critics sooner than she could croon My Desired Happiness.
Instead of putting our icons and winners on a pedestal, we knock them down with the classic Singapore Slam. Of course, some of us have higher expectations, and there are always exceptions like the Merlion, which we have come to regard with affection.
But surely we do not need to be disparaging about everything. We pride ourselves on being a tight-knit country, yet aside from food, we are stingy with our praises, and appreciation for one another is disturbingly scarce.
I do not know if this is misguided humility or some subconscious jealousy, but there is a dangerous message we are sending to our young and eager ones: “Don’t get in the spotlight, nobody will support you.”
Or: “Stay low, you’re not good enough anyway.”
If we keep doing this, let us not talk about a brain drain – nobody is even going to try. Then Singapore will really be nothing to shout about, and it is ultimately we who stand to lose the most. So instead of jeering, how about cheering? Think of the World Cup and Eurovision, where people fervently rally behind their countrymen. I doubt any footballer or singer could make it without such support.
We also see it in our schools, where young athletes are driven to shine by their encouraging peers. It is amazing how a simple thumbs-up can make a difference.
So before you pass the next nasty comment, think about who you are really harming.
Philosopher Rene Descartes said: “It is easy to hate, and it is difficult to love.”
I say it is about time we choose what is right over what is easy.
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obtained from http://forum.channelnewsasia.com/viewtopic.php?t=356526&start=10&sid=ebdbde9f154aea7b7cccb537e9218548
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very interesting.
Saturday, July 03, 2010
Jacky Cheung 她來聽我的演唱會 Live
song god = song god
identity above is proven, by induction, because disprove yet.
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