sometimes, the truth is not easy to accept. u hav 2 choices when met wif such a truth.

choice 1: accept it. this may be a viable option when u're desperate. and then find a solution and move on wif life. this is good isn't it. face it. i mean, at the end of the day u muz face it one wad.

choice 2: delude urself from the truth. well. good choice if u hav energy on a short term basis. u can bluff urself a while, get urself ready to take that news str8 on man. pls. but. not a good thing if u hav too much balls. cos if u hav balls and certain uprightness, u may not want to do this... u will feel it's against ur values and beliefs.

but. truth is a truth. so at the end of the day still hav to take it. as much as it is appalling. let's hav an e.g. gunpowder. the ang moh only in around 1300s found out gunpowder. chinaman like 800AD alr found out. but ang moh still hav to accept that chinaman invented 1st, as much as they want to tink they hav done it 1st. isn't it?