some people ask. should we wait for love to come? heh. i reckon, to a certain extent.

i was having a interesting tcs wif some old frens. so, there was a good point brought up. 姜太公钓鱼，愿者上钩. this has a meaning of a trap. but sorry folks, apparently, love is very much a trap. u're stuck means u're stuck. unless u decide not to be stuck together. and it may bring about many negative externalities if u decide to unstick.

waiting for the perfect person may not be the best choice if u figure around. yes, if kamu tyco, good for u. can get perfect person. but wad if ur perfect person tinks that u're juz another shit? aww. jtb eh. isn't it.

some ppl sae, acceptance is key. i agree very much wif this. as long as there's small attraction, and u are WILLING and ABLE to work on this small attraction, build up trust and blah blah. tings shld work out fine, unless there is a big moral, political, social, ethical, household issue that u and that person are together. hu sae, u muz marry a perfect person? look at ur parents. which are a perfect match? why are many of them staying together? because u and me, the child. is alive. and they live wif differences. and sort it out now and then. and they live. together. albeit not the most harmoniously sometimes.

if u are running out of breath and are resigned to nothing, den. juz shuddup. sit down. leave ur fishing rod there. when it shakes, pick it up, see whether ok. try around. taste the fish, see whether u are fine. not fine, den as i said, it may b difficult, but u still hav to bear the negative ext. after that, repeat. OR u can juz take that fish, eat and be unhappy till eternity. theoretically, u shld satisfy urself by not being unhappy. but if ur brain is quite spoilt like i believe many others are, juz sit and b unhappy eating that fish till eternity.

but the best cure is of course to be able to sit, wait, instead of fish come, angel come.