why do so many people go for win-lose? if u gained at the expense of someone else, is it a good idea? e.g. i dun share wif u a certain efficient method of doing something. den we do this activity. i turned out to be faster and took less time, and the boss gave me more money and gave u less. there is this gap of money created between us. in addition to the previous gap of knowledge. then because of this, the boss we are working for gets lower output. all lose. but marginally u can consider i won. because i had more money and i worked for less time.

why nt choose the win win situation? by making some compromises or being helpful, everyone may be better off. but unfortunately, we live in a weird place.

when u compromise, a million people will ask u, u so good, why u compromise wif a nub/idiot/lousy person? is it for political reason? 当心人，你们真是烦死人啦。那些做好人的，必须怀疑吗？除非这个人是混江湖，说话三分真七分假，我不认为我们得怀疑特别友善的人。你去怀疑好人，你自己生活难过而已，也可能使别人难受，在你面前感得非常不自在。

maybe i'm being superficial. but many a time the superficial is the truth, but ppl dowan to believe it and try to make things deep. bad for health. tink too much will die one.