haiz. will u like anyone disturbing u when u are not so happy? probably not. maybe i shld hav practiced the policy. when not happy, disappear. but unfortunately in this case, i thought i shld not hav disappeared. it was some people who are supposed to disappear.

let me giv u an example. u dun agree wif teachings of christianity. u are with a bunch of christians toking about christianity, and suddenly u get pist wif one of the discussion. wad shld u do? stay there and try to tok some cok about it and become more unhappy, or disappear? i suggest disappearance. ur unhappiness may not b spread to the others. rather than u sit there and show ur unhappiness to everybody. and then everybody oso unhappy oso. i duno. but if i was in this situation, i will disappear from the gathering, and do sth probably more constructive rather than making myself unhappy listening to unhappy talk. juz like u are in a place where u are unhappy, and u have the right to leave. i rather u leave and everyone's life go on as usual, and not affect other ppl mood.

but of course in some cases cannot do this policy. juz like i unhappy wif that guy dat day. but i do not hav the right to leave the organisation, because the organisation has been relatively good to everybody. and it's only one person who made me unhappy. so i shld probably find a way for that guy to explain to me wad he was doing that day. pmsing everybody and acting cute.