my friend tell me think too much will 走火入魔

to some extent it's true. u overthink, and u over-worry. things that are not supposed to happen, unrealistic predictions will be conjured. you live in a state of paranoia. a state whereby everything makes too much sense, too much meaning.

but some rather live in the moment. get caught with the flow and follow it. u no need self-control in the sense, that all ur actions can be "with the flow". enjoy everything that comes, take things in your stride.

no idea. i rather that everything has a meaning. everything is deliberate. everything is thought through. preferably only tho... it's up to u to choose.