as i said previously, everyone has part to play. it's juz like ur body. ur hands, feet, stomach, blood system, nerves, all have their own impt portion to play. if ur the hand, dun try to become the blood. dun gey kiang. u hav ur own job, do that job, dun ka jiao. unless u got skills upgrading.

it's the same that ppl all are a part of society. some ppl are abit more marginalised, unfortunate, not there. some ppl lack recognition. some ppl are up there, achiever, popular, of good repute. but wad's the most impt? dun jealous or hav problem wif each other. do ur job, live with self-esteem. why u go and tink u're lousy or this person lousy?

some ppl hu dun talk much actually do hav great self-esteem and direction, although they are not the highest achiever or the best speaker. in fact, alot of ppl hu hav greater abilities usually hav a hollow within themselves. low self-esteem. the only reason why they are trying to achieve more, is to fill this hollow up, but unfortunately it juz gets deeper.

well my advice is simple - tell urself u're 赢者，强者，智者. if u did ur part to the best of ur abilities, did not gey kiang, did not look down on urself unnecessarily and believed in wad u do, ur are one good person alr.

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o ya which brings me to the point. when u hav self-esteem alr, and do not b an extra kia, it's good alr. for both less standing out, and more prominent ppl, wif good self-esteem it's not only good for urself. it's good for ppl around u. u'll hav greater capacity to b kinder, to treat others with respect, to spread care and love for others. this is a positive. one person's positive mindset and attitude will lead to others being inspired to be positive too. and then love and are will be spread. thus, dun 看扁 urself or others too easily. dun lose ur respect for urself. there's no point. it only leads to ppl being unhappy, juz like how love and care will spread. which shld we spread? sorrows? u can share ur troubles so as to seek help, but do not make everyone unhappy wif u or wif others or cause problems for others.

keep up ur good work, as it positively affects everyone!