i will touch on a very dangerous subject. again. some ppl because they dated once, and broke up on a very bad note. date 2nd time, tio cheat again. then they will sae. all men/women are useless suckers, cos i like/love them, and they liddat to me. (depending on which sex u are. and assuming heterosexuality). but my qn is, is that a fair statement to make?

sorry ppl. my answer is NO. well. fair to sae that they have been bad ppl. but never fair to generalise and sae, all women/men are losers, useless. let me sae the safer of the dangerous sides 1st. from men point of view, some men see women as useless after such things happen. they will sae, seems like women will never give me wad i wan. ok fine. i'll show them, by sexing 1 million women/prostitues, another 2 million ducks and turn gay, and another 3 million animals to show some zoophilic traits. probably throw in 5million pitcher plants too. erpz. but i hav to tell u, by doing this, it seems like u're the real loser. why? u unable to find love. and why? because u hav lost ur confidence in finding a girl. when will a girl like u when u are not confident in them liking u, or doing something to impress them? fren. u shld wake up ur idea then. a girl cheat on u. it doesn't mean that u hav been a lousy person. u still can find another. a girl reject u. doesn't mean that u hav never loved her, doesn't mean that you're some failure in life. the very fact that u hav loved her, u hav some success (though not all). if u do agree wif this stand point. u can try again. or as usual, u can find another? probably. isn't it.

well for female standpoint, i'm not so well versed. but i can sae a little bit i reckon. if ppl do allow me to. haha. u c if a guy has cheated on u, it seems a very bad situation. if u do noe of this s'pore/asian mentality, women who hav been cheated on... they may become unstable. but same as men. why lose confidence when you have been cheated on once? no confidence that a guy can love you all the way, u'll never find one. if u hav been rejected by a guy, again same thing. probably a guy will come to see something in u isn't it if u keep positive outlook...

so conclusion is u shldn't tink the opposite sex is loser cos they seem to hav disappointed u in some sort of a relationship

anyways. so to a great extent, when u chase someone, u needa some confidence. u cannot b some person that looks down on urself. tink about it. u look down on urself. will someone like u? u wanna see urself loser, ppl like u for wad? to lose wif u? or u wan them to like u cos they pity u? probably not isn't it. u probably want someone hu likes u for a better reason than he/she pity u.

but. i muz sae some words of caution. for men, u shldn't ji hong all the time. u shld b more faithful rather than everyday find one girl. for women, u shldn't be promiscuous due to desponess. both will probably drop ur attractiveness. same thing. will u wan someone to like u, cos u're promiscuous and flirt very well? probably not eh. unless u seriously dun mind u like this, and ppl around u see you like this.

*disclaimer: not happy pls ask me to take down. or edit info.