人家借酒消愁，我戒酒消愁。为何？饮酒过渡，导致自己失去控制。当时，本来想消愁，最后变成愁上加优。

instead, if u were to stop clouding ur senses, maybe u'd find a solution anytime soon, and not face the risks of making some irrational, illogical, immoral mistake.