it's time to make some noise about a very dangerous phenomenon i can see now. juz look around u. i mean let's sae in the context of ur social circle. ur frens. ur class, cca groups etc etc. look around. y cannot take this person? it's about handling ppl and building certain types of relationships at certain times. when it's still early u dun too kanchiong make a decision to scrap ppl from ur social circle. extend it as wide as possible in lower sec, as ppl attitude usually havent develop fully. after that, then u start looking for ur important ppl, ppl u can turn to in trouble and so on. now i can see so many ppl start to destroy their own social circle so quickly. i wonder for what? think. for what? juz look. let's sae u start off wif 10ppl left for scrapping. u'll only left wif 1 in the end? dat's stupid. u shld expand to maybe 20-30 ppl. den u scrap u left maybe 3-5 ppl. which is enuff. well. as i said, if u start scrapping ppl from ur important friendship area too fast, u'll surely left wif no one to confide in. watch out.

and especially i wan to tok about handling idiots. u may tink the other guy is an idiot. but there muz be some ways u gotta handle him very nicely but not very nicely. u noe. i mean u still gotta live wif that guy, esp if that guy is in ur sch for maybe 4 years. or 6 years. or wadeva it is. u hav to find ur own method of handling them. it's impt. it's how u wan to handle ppl. u noe they are idiots. but u cant go all out on them cos u dun really lyk them, ur relation wif them not very close. lyk i can juz yell at my close fren cos i noe he will wake up when i scold. but at a person hu is not very close, unfortunately, u cannot. u yell, he will tink u're siao kia or he will tink u're juz another idiot trying to stop him from doing sth clever. u noe. so once again, find ur method of dealing wif such ppl.