really, what is the line between reasoning and excuse?

i think the onus is on the perceiver. then, should we bother what this perceiver thinks, before we reason?

what is considered work, and what is considered slack? is sleeping slacking? or isit working, since i can call it actively and with an intent to rest, so that i can work better?
similarly, if i do something for no economic benefit to myself, am i working, or resting?

so once again, why i need to get caught up with perceivers of my way? let them see what they want to see. should i be affected? maybe i shld. but as a general measure, take everyting wif a pinch of salt. it is never possible to satisfice these ppl's opinions. carry on perceiving, i dun tink it brings any benefits, to themselves or to myself.