Can a man carry fire next to his chest
and his clothes not be burned?

i shall admit i hav done that and got burnt.

For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:

That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour;

Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God:

That no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified.

For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness.

God-willing, i shall walk in holiness and not in shamefulness.

enough of that. time to leave all the past behind, even if i see the repeat of the similar situations, let's not jump into it. those who hath ears let him hear. and i shall hear... i hav been burnt so much.

even if the bloody temptation is right around the corner again, i shall resist it. do the right thing in God's eyes. do the right thing. be guided by the Spirit and not my own lustful spirit. watch it.