when you know how to appreciate something or someone, u know how to live with or without that person or that thing.

look, look. i see some ppl send off their family. they look so damn possessive. when the child fly off, they can't separate each other. wtf? if u appreciate each other already, there is no distance no matter how far the physical separation, or even in case of death.

true story.

u may think i'm mad, but this IS the way we hav to behave.

when we turn possessive, problems start to come in. think about it, if we think about owning sth so much, once we can't have that, we are affected adversely. we get obsessed over it. we feel "unbalanced".

but if we accept reality, which is that we can't have everything, and maybe if u take it religiously many things that come into our lives have a greater purpose, then we can put things into perspective. we'd think that, well, some things can't happen, it's fine. some things come to our lives, that's good. and we know how to live with or without these things. we appreciate the fact that this is reality, that we won't own every thing, but yet at the same time we know how to appreciate the stuff.

ok let's focus on the lecture, and i shall elaborate this shit nicer another day if i remember about this.