so i have dissected the situation.

basically, they are just unable to see the truth. the truth doesn't match their perceptions (dream) so much so that it is too overwhelming. so overwhelming that the only way to get out of this is to avoid it totally.

do i avoid anything in my life? i can't really rmb.

some are overwhelmed by the threat of a looming exam. some aren't. many are overwhelmed by the fear of more people loving them than before. they think that such a love manifests in creepiness.

u're mad i tell u. creepiness or not is but a matter of perception. if u are worried of love, u go think about how weak u are.

as said, love comes and go, love will always be present. if u don't appreciate love, it just shows what sort of person you are.